If I didn't define myself for myself I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.

If I didn't define myself for myself I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.

如果我不为自己定义自己，我就会被别人对我的幻想碾碎，被活生生地吃掉。

-- Audre Lorde 罗尔蒂