When you do say Yes, say it quickly. But always take a half hour to say No, so you can understand the other fellow's side.

When you do say Yes, say it quickly. But always take a half hour to say No, so you can understand the other fellow's side.

当你说“是”的时候，说得快一点。但总是要花半个小时说“不”，这样你才能理解对方的立场。

-- Francis Joseph Spellman 弗朗西斯·约瑟夫·斯佩尔曼