Love is so holy, so confusing. It makes a man anxious, tormented. Love, how can I define it?

Love is so holy, so confusing. It makes a man anxious, tormented. Love, how can I define it?

爱是那么圣洁，那么迷惘。它使人焦虑、痛苦。爱，我该如何定义它?

-- Gao Xingjian 高行健