Watch other people for clues about who they are, not just clues about how much they are or are not like you.

Watch other people for clues about who they are, not just clues about how much they are or are not like you.

观察别人，寻找他们是谁的线索，而不仅仅是他们有多像或不像你的线索。

-- Patti Digh 戴佩蒂