In both marriage and war you must cut up the things people say like a cake and eat only what you can stomach.

In both marriage and war you must cut up the things people say like a cake and eat only what you can stomach.

在婚姻和战争中，你必须把别人说的话像蛋糕一样切开，只吃你能吃的东西。

-- Catherynne M. Valente 瓦伦特大教堂