The suffering of a loved one was in many ways worse than one's one suffering because it left one feeling so very helpless.

The suffering of a loved one was in many ways worse than one's one suffering because it left one feeling so very helpless.

被爱的人所遭受的痛苦在很多方面都比自己所遭受的痛苦更糟糕，因为它让人感到非常无助。

-- Mary Balogh 玛丽·贝洛