It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them.

It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them.

只有当我们不再强迫性地需要某个人的时候，我们才能和他们建立真正的关系。

-- Anthony Storr 安东尼·斯托尔