Problems arise in that one has to find a balance between what people need from you and what you need for yourself.

Problems arise in that one has to find a balance between what people need from you and what you need for yourself.

当你必须在人们对你的需求和你对自己的需求之间找到平衡时，问题就出现了。

-- Jessye Norman 杰西·诺曼