When you're the victim of the behavior, it's black and white; when you're the perpetrator, there are a million shades of gray.

When you're the victim of the behavior, it's black and white; when you're the perpetrator, there are a million shades of gray.

当你成为这种行为的受害者时，事情就是黑白分明的;当你是行凶者的时候，有无数的灰色阴影。

-- Laura Schlessinger 劳拉·施莱辛格